The Enlightened Angle on Modern Love
My Neighbor the Exhibitionist
11 day ago
By Susan Winter on June 18, 2013 He stood proudly, mounting the window in his leopard colored G-sting. Today, my exhibitionist neighbor decided to express himself and alter my otherwise tranquil morning ritual. Where do men get these types of outfits? It had frayed edges resembling a Tarzan loin cloth. Was it left over from a wild [...]
Why Do Some People Fear Losing Themselves in Relationships? by Oliver JR Cooper
02 days ago
The whole idea of someone losing themselves in a relationship may sound completely ridiculous. And if this was to be taken literally, then yes, it does sound crazy. Because physically it is impossible to lose oneself in another person; there is nowhere to go and it is clearly not possible. And if this is the [...]
A Woman’s Worth
01 week ago
By Susan Winter on June 10, 2013 We run companies. We run countries. Regardless of advanced college degrees and net worth… at the end of the day a woman’s worth is still judged by youth and beauty. Is it fair? No. Is it an accurate assessment? No. But the big cog of social perception moves slowly. [...]
Cougars; The New “King” of the Jungle
02 weeks ago
By Susan Winter on June 4, 2013 Each year fashion magazines pick a color and rename it as the ‘new black.’ Similarly, the media is now stating women are the ‘new men.’ But this economic trend isn’t a fad. It’s a concrete power shift that’s proving its continuing reality as it changes the entire social dynamic between [...]
5 Principles for Dating Success
03 weeks ago
By Susan Winter on May 20, 2013 Dating is a venue for creating a rewarding connection with another person. We want to believe all of this just happens naturally. Sometimes it does. However, the ease we assume should be automatic is actually the result of having these five factors understood and exhibited: Know Yourself: Know your true [...]
Dating Younger Men: 5 Things You Need to Know
21 month ago
By Susan Winter on May 7, 2013 If you’re dating a younger guy, congratulations! Far too many centuries have limited women’s romantic choices. In adding younger men to the game board, every woman increases her opportunity for love and romance. As a relationship expert in this specific field of research, I’ve witnessed a tremendous shift in societal [...]
What Roles are we Playing in our Relationships? by Oliver JR Cooper
01 month ago
by Oliver JR Cooper What I am referring to by the term ‘roles’ is the way one behaves in the relationships in their life. So with the description out of the way, the first question is; what causes one to behave as they do in relationships when their behaviour is dysfunctional and disempowering and doesn’t [...]
Which “You” Shows Up on the First Date?
21 month ago
By Susan Winter on April 28, 2013 Dating begins with the presentation of “who we are.” Are you showing up as the “real you?” Or, are you presenting a different version of yourself in the hopes of impressing another? First dates provide an opportunity to create an impression by putting one’s best foot forward. It’s tempting terrain [...]
How to Flip from “Friend” to Lover
01 month ago
By Susan Winter on April 21, 2013 Are you stuck in the “friend zone?” It’s a rotten position to play when you’d prefer to be the “lover.” If you want to flip from friend to lover, here’s how to negotiate the mechanics of that choice: Should you tell them? Yes. Speaking up and owning your truth is [...]
Sex: The Price of Admission to the Game of Love
42 months ago
By Susan Winter on April 13, 2013 This is the best of all times to be a man. Sex isn’t the promise of a future partnership. It’s a prize that’s given freely at the beginning of a “who-knows-what” type of interaction with a woman. Standing in the middle of this sociological shift, I look around my world [...]
