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Susan Winter — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 22:14:03 +0000

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Comment on Hot and Cold by Susan Winter

Susan Winter — Sat, 21 Apr 2012 16:21:59 +0000

Dear Reader. Blowing hot and cold is a defense tactic used by both males and females. It’s based on the need to entice interest, then push the person away to maintain control. Know that if you are involved with someone who does this in the initial stages of attraction, you will have a bumpy ride after becoming physically involved. You’ll be confused and unsure of where you stand.

I suggest you counter this move with directness of approach. Game creates game. Honesty trumps game every time. You have nothing to lose by calling him out on his behavior. I’d text him something to the effect (in your own words); “I’d like to get to know you better. I think you’re interesting… (or what ever else you really feel is true). If that sounds good to you, let’s meet in person.”

Texting and chatting on-line is a barrier to knowing someone. You can’t hear the nuance in their voice, and can’t “feel” them when you text or chat. A real guy will want to meet you face to face on a proper date, even if it’s coffee or drinks.

But, beware. This person is afraid of committing and afraid of being vulnerable. You need both qualities to have a real relationship.

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Dating Advice : How to Date a Cougar | HowTo Date a Cougar — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 02:40:26 +0000

Dating younger men has been around for ages. Queen Elizabeth I hooked up with the Earl of Essex when she was 53 and; he was 26. More recently, Cher is known for always dating younger men and Demi Moore kicked off what I call the Cougar Revolution by not only dating, but actually marrying someone 5 years younger, Ashton Kutcher. Other celebrity cougars include Paula Abdul, who is dating a man 12 years younger; Katie Couric is 17 years older than her man; Ivana Trump is about to marry a man 23 years her junior; Mira Sorvino is married to a man who is 14 years younger and Madonna’s husband was 10 years younger. There are two main reasons why dating younger men has become so popular. The first is that 20-30 years ago, there weren’t as many single women over 30. Most people married in their 20s and stayed married, no matter what. As divorce became more socially acceptable, women in the 30s and 40s began to enter the dating scene. However, they often found that men their age preferred younger women, so their choices were usually relegated to men 15-20 years their senior. Many of these women however, were young at heart, vibrant and attractive and didn’t want to be with someone that much older. The second reason is finances. Just as financially independent men often prefer younger women, financially independent women often prefer younger men. Now that women are no longer bound by finances and social norms and mores are loosening up.

Comment on Hot and Cold by gagepetronski

gagepetronski — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 23:53:09 +0000

Question: what if the guy you are interested in dating, has not gone beyond ‘texting’ and ‘chatting online’ and has an interest in a first date but is showing extreme signs of blowing hot/cold…and self admittingly does so. The guy shows signs of a smug and almost narcissistc behavior when running ‘cold’ but when hot its a decent connection. What should one do when faced w/ blowing him off? Ignoring his text messages is whats currently happening but do not want to get involved in a game of words and get ‘sucked into’ his game again. What should one do?