What do You Want?

Most women I know focus on asking themselves, “What does he want?” The question is a waste of time and energy. The question that should be asked is, “What do I want?”

How many times have you listened to a friend ramble on and on about, “What did he mean by that? What do you think he wants?” As a confident, self possessed woman, the only thing you need to determine is what you want from him. Once that’s clearly established, proceed honestly in your language, actions and behavior.

We no longer need to convince women to lead with their hearts. Women are free to choose whomever they desire. We no longer need to explain the reasons why women should give themselves permission to think outside of the box. They are living outside the box. Fully expressed, today’s women of all ages enjoy the perks their male counterparts have long known.

As a relationship expert dedicated to empowering women and men of every age, and in every walk of life, this is a marvelous time in human history. We’ve never had more choices for love and romance. Standing hand and hand with an ever expanding group of men by our side, today’s women experience true pride and confidence in the totality of their worth, and rejoice in its many manifestations. The only thing we need to ask, is “What do we want now?” And, how do we want it to look, and feel? No longer living life from the template of a male design, we can do it our way. We can design the type of relationships we want. We have the right to ask for what we truly want. We have the courage to create what we want. And the ability to live our romantic desires, whatever they may be.

If you find yourself musing over the archaic question, “What does he want?”… I suggest you shift your inquiry to that which is in your control. Ask instead, what is it that you want? In doing so, you will experience the core of true female empowerment.