Chemistry is yet another quality that frequently emerges when we think about what makes relationships happy, but one aspect of it, disposition, tends to go under the radar. More specifically, it has to do with what each person’s disposition brings out in the other, says Winter. “Does our partner have a disposition that ignites our anger, jealousy or insecurity? Or, do they defuse tension through clear communication and thoughtful behavior?

Disposition is Key to Happy Relationships

No matter how exciting and exciting a partner is, we need to determine whether it brings out the best or the worst in us, ”she says. Sometimes the two can be incredible and loving partners, but if something in one person’s disposition brings out the worst in the other, it can be a relationship killer. The reverse is also true and is a key ingredient in long-term love. So if your partner’s disposition usually brings out the best in you, you’ve probably found a caretaker.

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