A big hello to all of my UK friends and followers! I’m so excited to have recorded a LIVE interview tonight on BBC Asian Network Radio. The topic is all about bad dating behavior. Learn why daters will ghost, breadcrumb, and play other dating games. If you missed the LIVE show, here’s the replay.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0003769
Learn the tell-tale signs: flattery, seduction, flirtation, cat and mouse coyness, hot and cold behavior.
Decode the thinking behind giving you “small doses of hope.”
Learn how they draw you in romantically, but that always end in no real action.
“When you’ve finally given up hope, the breadcrumber psychically senses your absence. Suddenly, they resurface. Now, the game begins again with more flattery and alluring bait… also known as the breadcrumbs,”
I’ll explain why it’s so important to “call them out on their bad behavior.” Clarify you know this game and you’re not interested. Walk away… and keep walking.
As I told Elite Daily,
“Breadcrumbing is the conscious act of leading someone on for the thrill of the ego boost. It’s the ‘hot’ cycle in the game of hot and cold. Designed to lure in one’s prey through attention, flattery and sexual intrigue, breadcrumbing is completely self-serving. It’s a head trip, played for control and domination.”
There’s no rehabilitation for an ego in need of this level of compensation.