Articles: No Rules/New Rules

Dating in the Time of Bad Advice | Huffington Post Article
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Dating in the Time of Bad Advice | Huffington Post Article
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Dating in the Time of Bad Advice | Huffington Post Article

2024-05-24T15:43:40-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Dating Advice, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships|Tags: Articles: No Rules/New Rules, dating, dating advice, love, relationship advice, relationship expert, The Huffington Post|

Dating can feel like running a marathon in high-heels and push-up bra... with a bad hangover. The “no rules” free-for-all system we have today puts men in a vaulted seat of primacy. Men have become the treasured goal. Or so a woman is led to believe. The magazines that serve as your coaches are failing you, ladies. While you’re flipping through articles on the latest trick to pleasing a man for the night, you’re not gaining any real guidance to secure your self-esteem for a [...]

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Marriage “A La Carte”
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Marriage “A La Carte”
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Marriage “A La Carte”

2024-05-24T15:44:52-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: Articles: No Rules/New Rules, love, marriage, relationship expert, relationships|

Traditional vows of commitment don’t necessitate a traditional relationship. The beauty of modern marriage is that you don’t have to follow yesterday's rules. You needn’t take on the historic pattern of how it should look or how it should function. Modern couples are far too evolved to want to re-create an existing formula. Yet, they may long for this established statement of their love. Inside this archetype, the challenge is to create what is real and true for both individuals. Last night, I had dinner [...]

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5 Principles for Dating Success
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5 Principles for Dating Success
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5 Principles for Dating Success

2024-05-24T15:44:22-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: Articles: No Rules/New Rules, dating, love, relationship expert, relationships, success|

Dating is a venue for creating a rewarding connection with another person. We want to believe all of this just happens naturally. Sometimes it does. However, the ease we assume should be automatic is actually the result of having these five factors understood and exhibited: 1. Know Yourself: Know your true nature and disposition. This allows you to lead with your strengths. What’s your natural style of communication? If you’re prone to light banter and playfulness, then go on your date with the intention of [...]

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Is the Price of Admission to the Game of Love Too High?
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Is the Price of Admission to the Game of Love Too High?
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Is the Price of Admission to the Game of Love Too High?

2024-05-24T15:42:02-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Huffington Post|Tags: Articles: No Rules/New Rules, dating, love, relationship expert, relationships, self-esteem, sex, women|

This is the best of all times to be a man. Sex isn’t the promise of a future partnership. It’s a prize that’s given freely at the beginning of a “who-knows-what” type of interaction with a woman. Standing in the middle of this sociological shift, I look around my world to see how other women are feeling about this current state of affairs. Are they happy? I’m not. Do they feel powerful? I don’t feel empowered from this position. Is there no way out of [...]

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Dating Newsflash: When Doing it “Wrong” is “Right”
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Dating Newsflash: When Doing it “Wrong” is “Right”
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Dating Newsflash: When Doing it “Wrong” is “Right”

2024-05-24T15:43:05-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: Articles: No Rules/New Rules, BuzzChomp.com, Dating Help, games, honesty, love, modern dating, no rules, real, relationship expert|

By Susan Winter In light of modern dating having “no rules,” what’s the right (and the wrong) approach to take when meeting a prospective partner? Clearly, the “wrong” approach is to use antiquated methodology. You’re not using an abacus to prepare your taxes, right? Traditional rules of approach instruct us to reek of self-confidence and power. Women are to posture themselves as unattainable goddesses and men are to be as smooth as James Bond. When “image” substitutes for reality, no meaningful connection can be made. Dating [...]

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