By: AYOOLA ADETAYO
Either permanently or temporarily, there’re people who see no reason for a romantic connection with anybody. And that has to be OK, too.
Perhaps the most interesting about humans is our inherent existential differences, the autonomy and insulation of our individual minds from group thoughts and societal beliefs.
That’s why it usually happens that some people lean towards different inclinations as opposed to what the majority of society believes in. Take, for example, dating and relationships. The ‘normal’ thing, as far as our society is concerned, is that men and women want to gravitate towards partners they find attractive; people they are interested in and those they’d like to have an emotional and/or physical connection with.
An insanely vast number of people belong in that category. It’s like how almost everyone wants to have at least a child in this world but then, there are some who do not want that. So also there are people who see no reason for a romantic connection with anybody. For some, it’s temporary and for some others, it may be like a permanent, permanent thing. It’s actually all OK for people to decide what they want without being judged or forced to comply with some other contradictory rules.
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