Older Women/Younger Men

As seen on OPRAH, author and relationship expert Susan Winter (Older Women, Younger Men, New Horizon Press, 2000) brings her experience and expertise to this modern love dynamic. Older women and the younger men who love them aren’t just a Hollywood fad. In the real world, this romantic union is becoming increasingly common. With it, come new challenges and questions. If you’re an older women involved with a younger man, get the guidance you need based on 20 years of real-life experience and research. If you’re a younger man seeking advice on his Cougar, you’ve come to the right place. Whether simply curious about the dating process, or in need of real answers for this emerging form of partnership— here you’ll find exciting information and novel solutions.

For centuries, a woman’s worth has been measured by her youth and beauty. When we listen to the world, we forget our truth. Caged by an outdated concept, many women have believed this to be true. And, in believing this, their lives have been limited. In all ways… including love. Yet, there are those who refuse to be confined to being less.

A woman’s worth is the totality of who she is. We are more than our bodies. We are more than our age, or beauty. More than our sexual allure. A truly empowered woman knows how to love completely. Her heart has no limits. Her choices have no limits. A woman’s worth is measured by a life fully expressed. The courage to be her own person, to create her own vision of life— regardless of what society says.

In life, there is evolution. The evolution of new ideals, and greater options. Each decade creates more choice, extending the realm of who we are and what we can be in the world. An original life, is one that walks against the crowd. The rules of society are broken— not in defiance, but in the need to create new rules that allow for greater expansion and growth.

There are new options for love and romance. We are free to love the person we desire, regardless of age— theirs, or ours. Barriers that limit love are crumbling. The freedom to love should know no boundaries. As women continue to see themselves as as powerful, deserving, and worthy, they enjoy a greater participation in all the world has to offer. Younger men are just one form of this expression. It’s a choice, formerly not granted to us. It’s not about sex. It’s about love. It’s not about younger men seeking money or opportunity. And, it’s not about an older woman using manipulation. It’s about real love— a love that can, and does work.

As long as we live our truth and express our life fully, there is no limit to our worth. We are servants only to our dreams… not to societies expectations. To live with complete freedom, the life we choose. Without limitation, shame, or justification. Freedom of choice— to be who we came here to be, and to love whom we want to love.