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Why a Little Insecurity Is Good for You | Huffington Post article

Why do we feel insecure about our insecurities? Why do we view insecurity as being a bad thing, when it’s something we all experience at certain times in our life?

I’ve often wondered about the purpose of this very basic human emotion. Knowing that Life is here to assist us, why place this uncomfortable obstacle in our way to feeling good about ourselves? Unless, of course, it provides a vital ingredient needed for our advancement.

Finding the gift of insecurity requires looking through a different lens of […]

5 Tips for a Great Valentine’s Day (Whether Single or Partnered) | Huffington Post article

Valentine’s day can be a real head-trip for many of us. Single’s can feel the pressure of not having a partner with whom to share this day of love. Those in a relationship can feel the pressure of social expectation, wondering if their partner’s going to let them down. Both positions can be emotionally perilous.

Here are five tips to combat any negative messages you may receive this season:

1. Keep Valentine’s Day in perspective:

It’s 1 day out of 365 days. No single day bears testimony to […]

The Most Overlooked Quality Needed for Relationship Success| Huffington Post article

How do we know if the person we’re dating is the right choice for our long-term happiness? What steps can we take when the partnership we have is becoming less rewarding?

Picking the right partner is essential to a relationship’s success. Most of us understand this foundational principle, and enter the dating scene with clarity of purpose. We know what we want. We know our end goals. And we know the qualities we desire in a mate.

Enjoying the partner we have demands realignment, creativity and growth. […]

4 Steps to Spark Your Partner’s Affection This Thanksgiving| Huffington Post article

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to accelerate your partner’s affection and passion. It’s the holiday that reminds us to be thankful for all that we have, and to show appreciation for our bounty.

Applying this concept directly to our romantic lives creates a dramatic impact on our partner’s love for us. The power of appreciation isn’t just a ‘nicety’ that we should do. It’s the key to creating love.

Appreciation is the magical ingredient proven to augment love’s growth and guarantee its continuance.

I first became aware of […]

Why Dating ‘Wrong’ Is Right| Huffington Post article

Modern dating has proven to be confusing to everyone. Rules that guided our behavior no longer apply. All the factors surrounding how we meet, date and mate have changed. In a time of no rules, what’s the right (and wrong) approach to take when meeting a prospective partner?

The wrong approach would be to use a fixed, outmoded formula. Traditional rules instructed us to exude self-confidence and power. These were the hallmarks of attraction. Women were to present themselves as a prized goddess, managing the numerous […]

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