By Kornelija Viečaitė and Gabija Palšytė
Is your live-in partner a gold digger? Or do you make so much more than they, that to demand equal rent would be impossible? My interview in Bored Panda give you options on how to handle income disparity.
When one partner makes more than the other, there are bound to be disagreements
In an ideal world, money doesn’t matter in relationships. However, in reality, income gaps between partners often lead to arguments and misunderstandings between couples. Relationship expert Susan Winter told Insider that a significant income disparity can strain a relationship. “Traditionally speaking, money equals power. And the one with the power is the one who controls the relationship.”
What’s the solution? Again, communication. Winter said that the individual who feels discomfort because they’re making less or their partner, is making significantly more should let their feelings be known. They should also evaluate what exactly makes them feel this discomfort.
Because in many cases, the person who makes less money can contribute in other ways, whether that’s taking on more of the household chores or bearing more of the emotional labor. Winter also notes how the partner can express their affection for their significant other so as to let them know it’s not about the money, or they can plan inexpensive dates to treat them.
