By Susan Winter
How do you know if they love you? This is a great question, because at some point in the relationship we need to figure out where we stand with our partner and how solidly their commitment to us lies. We’ve learnt enough to know that we can’t live on future promises, and we can’t wait on a ‘maybe.’ And that no matter how pretty their words… we need to look at the reality of their actions.
I recently did a Live Show on this topic, revealing the 5 signs that show your partner’s in love with you:https://www.youtube.com/live/xZnCWqutfOQ.
It contains some great information as well as viewers question and answers. If you’re not following my live shows, I invite you to join us. It’s an excellent way to meet my family of YouTube followers and come away informed and inspired.
There is a vast terrain in between wanting something to be a certain way, and seeing it for what it is.
How can you tell the difference between someone who likes you and someone who’s truly in love with you? And even more so— somebody who loves you, but is not in love with you? When a person truly loves you, they’ll exhibit consistent signs of being on your side and having your back. You’ll innately know that you can count on them. This offers peace of mind, which is the complete opposite of anyone who’s wondering if the partner there with is truly with them.
The Inner Circle
You’ll feel safe in the knowledge that you’re a couple. There’s a sense of inclusion; you’ve met their friends and family. They’ve included you in the inner circle. And not only that, but they’re also proud to be with you in public. Unlike former situationships, you’re not hidden. You’re not a person that they see in the bedroom but hide from the public.
How You Feel
The clearest way you’ll know they love you is by the way it feels—deeply, undeniably, within. It’s a powerful sense of knowing. I understand that can sound vague, like when someone says they knew they were with the right person because “you just know.” But some things can only be understood by those who’ve truly felt them.
When a person’s in love with you, it’s often times beyond words. Perhaps they share those words with you… and that’s wonderful. But, when you’re trying to describe it to someone else, you may find it hard to do. Difficulty in articulating something this precious doesn’t invalidate its reality.
Look for these 5 signs:
1.They’re truly interested in you as a person: there’s no agenda or game plan other than getting to know you because they love you and care about you. Knowing you means, they will know how to please you. They’re in it not just for the good times but for the bad times as well.
2.They support you, your dreams, and believe in you: your wins are celebrated and honored. They are your number one teammate, cheerleader, and fan. They believe in you. They fight by your side and for you.
3.They pay attention to the things that make you happy: they are attentive to you and your needs and want to ensure your happiness. They noticed small things and big things, because you are important and therefore your happiness is important to them.
4.They’re willing to work on the relationship: The relationship is important to them, so they not only work to keep the lines of communication open, but to facilitate conflict resolution. They understand that relationships have challenges, and they take responsibility for their side of the street.
5.They’re proud to be with you and reflect that publicly as well as privately: you’re fully included in every aspect of their life. They speak well of you when you’re not around, and they’ve included you in their innermost circles.
And for my male followers, here’s a recent interview I had with Glam Magazine:
13 Signs A Woman Is Truly In Love With You
https://www.glam.com/1814482/signs-woman-truly-love-you/
