Unlock the secrets to maximizing your dating app success with my latest feature in Women. Discover the 5 winning strategies you need for success and how to apply them for the best results:
Switch up your age
“My clients have said that lowering their age allows for a greater influx of matches,” says bestselling author and relationship expert, Susan Winter, adding “but that carries its own issues if the relationship moves forward.”
Be super active
“The algo loves activity, so frequent users are favored,” says Winter. “The same is true on social media sites.”
“Frequent users are more apt to pay for premium services,” says Winter. “They’ve got skin in the game financially and they are investing time to actively search for a partner. While you’re online searching for a partner, you’re visible to others searching for theirs. It’s a win-win for the dating apps.”
Upgrade your photos
“In today’s swipe culture, you have one second to capture someone’s attention,” Winter exclusively tells Women. “That’s why your main profile photo has to be terrific.” Even the best selfies are rarely labeled terrific. “[The main photo] needs to represent the highest version of the real you. This is your best asset for capturing the kind of attention that would make someone investigate further.”
Winter also suggests having what she calls “lifestyle photos.” If you love to hike, then post of photo of you hiking. If you’re big into live music, learning how to Tango, or anything else that proves you’re more than just a 2-D person on a dating app, capture that through pictures. “[These photos] are crucial for attracting better matches online,” says Winter. “These images showcase who you are and offer a glimpse into the life potential partners could share with you. This is what makes them want to connect and find out more about you.”
Consider paying for a subscription
“Paid services filter out those who are ‘just looking,’ [because] subscription payments identify the individual who’s invested in finding a partner,” says Winter. “It’s fine to begin with the free sites just to get your bearings. You’ll find a greater number of individuals on the free sites but your outcome will be hit or miss.”
Be open to kissing a lot of frogs
“Forget worrying about algorithms … dating is a numbers game and especially so on the apps. Today’s algorithm doesn’t mean it will apply tomorrow.” According to Winter, the best way to make the most out of apps is to know who and what you want, have a clear focus on that type of person, and quit worrying about algorithms. “You’re in control of choosing the correct person for your romantic goals,” says Winter.
To read the story on how to get the most out of your dating apps, check out the full version on Women, 5 Tips To Make The Most Out Of Dating Apps (We Know You’re Tired Of Swiping).